Why it usually falls apart
Most new journals die in the first fortnight. The blank page is intimidating, the first entries try to be profound, and on a tired evening there is nothing to say. Journaling sticks when the bar is low and the prompt is ready, so you never sit staring at the page wondering what counts as worth writing.
How to start journaling
Write three lines
Set the minimum at three lines. Most days you will write more. On the days you do not, three lines still counts.
Use a fixed prompt
Start each entry with the same question: What happened today? What am I thinking about? What went well? A prompt removes the blank-page problem.
Same time, same place
Attach it to something you already do, like after brushing your teeth or with the morning coffee. Leave the notebook and pen where you will do it.
Write badly
Nobody will read it. Spelling, grammar and sense do not matter. The value is in getting thoughts out of your head.
Try expressive writing for hard days
When something is bothering you, write about it for fifteen minutes without stopping. Research on expressive writing, going back to James Pennebaker in the 1980s, links it with reduced stress for many people.
Read back monthly
Once a month, read the past few weeks. Patterns jump out, and seeing progress is motivating.
What to track
Track the smallest version you would still count on your worst day. A row you can clear when tired is a row you keep:
- Three lines written
- Notebook by the bed
- Monthly read-back
Print a tracker with these 3 habits or open them in a spreadsheet.
Your first week
- Day 1. Put a notebook and pen where you will journal.
- Day 2. Write three lines: what happened today?
- Day 3. Write three lines: what am I thinking about?
- Day 4. Write three lines: what went well?
- Day 5. Write for fifteen minutes about something bothering you.
- Day 6. Write three lines with any prompt.
- Day 7. Read back the week.
How to start journaling
What should I write in a journal?
Anything that helps: what happened, how you feel, what you are grateful for, what you are worried about. Prompts help if you are stuck.
Is journaling good for mental health?
Research suggests expressive writing can reduce stress and help process difficult experiences. If you are struggling, it works alongside professional help.
Should I journal in the morning or at night?
Whichever you will keep up. Morning is good for planning, night for reflection. Choose one time and stick to it.
Related habits
- How to start meditatingYour mind will wander. Noticing that and coming back is the practice.
- How to stop overthinkingThinking harder about it is the habit. The way out is to give the thought a place and a time.
- How to build a morning routineThree things, same order, every day. Start there and add later.
- All the habits65 habits to break or build, each with a first week laid out.
- 70 bad habits, each with a swapThe full list, grouped by where they show up in your day, with a printable for each group.
